Tulsa LGBTQIA+ — First Fridays

Tulsa's Most
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A rotating cocktail party. A different Tulsa hotel bar every month. Free admission. Great cause. Absolutely essential vibes.

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Aloft Hotel — April 3, 2026 — Photos by Michael Powell

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The Story

Picture it.
First Friday.
A Tulsa hotel bar.

It's 6 o'clock on a first Friday. The drinks are cold, the crowd is fabulous, and somewhere across the room someone is laughing at something so good you have to walk over and introduce yourself.

That's 4H: Homo Hotel Happy Hour. Every first Friday of the month, we take over a different Tulsa hotel bar for two hours of cocktails, conversation, and community. No cover charge. No dress code. No drama. Just the finest, most fun, most fabulously diverse LGBTQIA+ crowd in Tulsa doing what we do best.

And while we're all having the time of our lives, we pass the hat for a local charity. Because being fabulous and being generous aren't mutually exclusive. Never have been.

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Aloft Hotel — April 2026

The Formula

Simple as a Perfect Martini

Four steps to Tulsa's best night out. Repeat monthly.

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The Venue Reveal

Every month, a different Tulsa hotel bar. We keep it fresh. Follow us on Meetup and Instagram so you're never caught off guard.

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Show Up, Drink Up

Walk in any time between 6 and 8 PM. Order something delicious. Let the room work its magic. New friends happen naturally here.

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Raffle & Give Back

We run raffle tickets for fabulous prizes. Nearly all proceeds go to a local LGBTQIA+ cause or charity we spotlight each month.

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Leave Happier

You leave with new friends, a lighter heart, and the warm glow of knowing you helped someone just by showing up and having fun.

300+ Total Guests across all events and growing
4 Events Hosted Tulsa’s best venues, every month
4 Charities Supported local Tulsa causes, every event
$0 Cover Charge now, then, and always
Mark Your Calendar

The Next Party Is Coming.

📅 Date Friday, August 7, 2026
🕕 Time 6:00 – 8:00 PM
🏨 Venue Announced soon
💵 Cover Free. Always.
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First Friday of every month in Tulsa. Our August venue drops soon — follow us on Meetup and Instagram to be the first to know the spot. Always free, charity raffle all night. Bring your people. Bring a stranger.

Recent Venue — Historic Route 66

We Checked Into
The Campbell Hotel.

We finally got a hotel. After a year of borrowing other people’s rooms, 4H threw its July First Friday inside an actual hotel — The Campbell, the restored 1927 Spanish Colonial that was the very first full-service hotel on Route 66 in Tulsa. Same warm, easy crowd, a historic backdrop. Always free, charity raffle all night.

HHHH First Friday July 3 2026 at The Campbell Hotel, a 1927 Historic Route 66 landmark in Tulsa. Always free, charity raffle all night.

Save the flyer. Share the flyer. Bring a friend.

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2636 E 11th St

The Campbell Hotel sits right on Historic Route 66 in Tulsa. Free on-site parking, easy to find, and a setting unlike anywhere we’ve been. First Friday energy in a true landmark.

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A Route 66 Landmark

Built in 1927, The Campbell was the first full-service hotel on Route 66 in Tulsa. Restored and reborn, it’s the perfect backdrop for a happy hour with a little history in its bones.

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Charity Raffle All Night

Like every 4H night, the raffle runs all evening and the proceeds go to a local Tulsa cause. Buy a ticket, win something, give back to the community that shows up.

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Always Free

No cover, no dress code, no catch. Just great drinks, a great crowd, and a great cause on the first Friday of the month. Bring your people. Bring a stranger.

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4H Raffle and Charity Table Prize Basket with Wine
More Than a Party

We Come for the Fun.
We Stay for the Good.

Every 4H event raises money for a local Tulsa charity. Raffle tickets, bucket donations, and the collective generosity of a community that genuinely shows up for each other.

Nearly all raffle proceeds go directly to the featured charity. We cover only the minimum production costs (like our photographer), and every dollar beyond that goes straight to the cause.

Have a cause you'd like to nominate? Slide into our DMs on Instagram.

Our Beneficiaries

Get In Touch

Say Hello.

Questions about the next event? Want to nominate a charity? Just want to say hi? Drop us a line and we'll get back to you.

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Good to Know

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need before your first First Friday.

What is Homo Hotel Happy Hour?

Homo Hotel Happy Hour (4H) is Tulsa's free monthly LGBTQIA+ cocktail happy hour. On the first Friday of every month we take over a different Tulsa hotel bar, raise money for a local charity with an all-night raffle, and welcome everyone from regulars to first-timers. No cover, no dress code.

When and where is the next Homo Hotel Happy Hour?

4H happens on the first Friday of every month at a rotating Tulsa hotel bar. The upcoming venue and date are always posted at the top of this page and on our Meetup. RSVP on Meetup or join our Facebook group to get the details each month.

Is it really free?

Yes. Admission is always free, with no cover and no dress code. The only money involved is the optional charity raffle, and nearly all of those proceeds go straight to the featured local Tulsa cause.

What charities does 4H support?

Every event raises money for a local Tulsa charity through the raffle and bucket donations. Past beneficiaries include Council Oak Men's Chorale and Queer Lit Collective. Nearly all raffle proceeds go directly to the featured charity; we cover only minimal production costs like our photographer.

How do I attend or get involved?

Just show up on the first Friday, or RSVP on Meetup and join our Facebook group so you never miss a venue announcement. Want to nominate a charity or co-host? Message us on Instagram @homohotelhappyhour.

Ready to Join the Party?

No cover. No dress code. Just great drinks, a great crowd, and a great cause. First Friday of every month, Tulsa.

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