Tulsa LGBTQIA+ — First Fridays

Tulsa's Most
Fabulous
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A rotating cocktail party. A different Tulsa hotel bar every month. Free admission. Great cause. Absolutely essential vibes.

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Aloft Hotel — April 3, 2026 — Photos by Michael Powell

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The Story

Picture it.
First Friday.
A Tulsa hotel bar.

It's 6 o'clock on a first Friday. The drinks are cold, the crowd is fabulous, and somewhere across the room someone is laughing at something so good you have to walk over and introduce yourself.

That's 4H: Homo Hotel Happy Hour. Every first Friday of the month, we take over a different Tulsa hotel bar for two hours of cocktails, conversation, and community. No cover charge. No dress code. No drama. Just the finest, most fun, most fabulously diverse LGBTQIA+ crowd in Tulsa doing what we do best.

And while we're all having the time of our lives, we pass the hat for a local charity. Because being fabulous and being generous aren't mutually exclusive. Never have been.

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Aloft Hotel — April 2026

The Formula

Simple as a Perfect Martini

Four steps to Tulsa's best night out. Repeat monthly.

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The Venue Reveal

Every month, a different Tulsa hotel bar. We keep it fresh. Follow us on Meetup and Instagram so you're never caught off guard.

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Show Up, Drink Up

Walk in any time between 6 and 8 PM. Order something delicious. Let the room work its magic. New friends happen naturally here.

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Raffle & Give Back

We run raffle tickets for fabulous prizes. Nearly all proceeds go to a local LGBTQIA+ cause or charity we spotlight each month.

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Leave Happier

You leave with new friends, a lighter heart, and the warm glow of knowing you helped someone just by showing up and having fun.

300+ Total Guests across all events and growing
3 Events Hosted a new hotel bar every time
3 Charities Supported local Tulsa causes, every event
$0 Cover Charge now, then, and always
Mark Your Calendar

The Next Party Is Coming.

📅 Date Friday, May 1, 2026
🕕 Time 6:00 – 8:00 PM
🏊 Venue Brut Hotel & Spa — Poolside
💵 Cover Free. Always.
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Outdoor rooftop pool setting — dress for a garden party. Year-round heated pool, poolside bar, and Tulsa skyline views.

Our May Venue

We're Taking Over
The Brut Hotel.

Tulsa's most exciting boutique hotel is our home for May. The 4H crowd is moving poolside to Rosa on the Lawn, and we're bringing the whole party with us. Here's why you should show up early and make a night of it.

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Rosa on the Lawn & The Pool

Our party happens poolside in the Brut's lush outdoor garden space. Heated year-round, gorgeous skyline views, and a poolside bar that knows what it's doing. Arrive in your best garden-party look.

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SOMA Rooftop

After happy hour, head upstairs to SOMA — Tulsa's hottest rooftop restaurant and bar. Live music, elevated cocktails, and the kind of sunset views that make you cancel your plans for the rest of the week. The Rooftop Concert Series kicks off April 28.

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1820 Spa

A peaceful day spa and sauna tucked right into the Brut property — open to hotel guests and neighbors alike. Book a treatment before the party, or come back Sunday morning for one of their floating sound baths. Yes, really.

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Stay the Night

Make it a full experience. The Brut is a boutique hotel worth the night — designed with personality, walkable to everything, and a whole lot more fun than a chain. Book a room and you won't have to worry about a thing.

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4H Raffle and Charity Table Prize Basket with Wine
More Than a Party

We Come for the Fun.
We Stay for the Good.

Every 4H event raises money for a local Tulsa charity. Raffle tickets, bucket donations, and the collective generosity of a community that genuinely shows up for each other.

Nearly all raffle proceeds go directly to the featured charity. We cover only the minimum production costs (like our photographer), and every dollar beyond that goes straight to the cause.

Have a cause you'd like to nominate? Slide into our DMs on Instagram.

Our Beneficiaries

Get In Touch

Say Hello.

Questions about the next event? Want to nominate a charity? Just want to say hi? Drop us a line and we'll get back to you.

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Ready to Join the Party?

No cover. No dress code. Just great drinks, a great crowd, and a great cause. First Friday of every month, Tulsa.

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